Building A Solid Relationship: Persuading A Special Someone They Need You

By Cucan Pemo

The art of persuasion isn’t new to the dating world and the concept is really quite simple. You have to create a need for the person, ensure they realize the need, help them figure out how to fulfill that need and then fill that need for them.

The basics of persuasion are primarily that you have to be you and you have to make yourself the need of the other person. This works for both men and women and works on the opposite sex well.

First of all—you have to make a good first impression. You should be clean, healthy and in good repair (meaning your hair should be clean and brushed, your teeth clean, your general appearance clean, neat and tidy). You need to make yourself something worthy of being desired—attractive and clean. This is part of the persuasion—being desirable.

Be a nice person—if part of your first impression is you at your worst or not at your best, you will be